More than 50 odds comprising of SOSWE members, few adults, students from St. Columba, Chung Hua and Kolej Tun Datu Tuanku Haji Bujang, Miri and one or two from SMK Joseph came on their own. We were quite disappointed that Riam School and SMK Joseph did'nt send any of their students despite our visit to their schools. They missed this rare opportunity to meet this inspiring writer.
Monday, March 9, 2009
ROBERT RAYMER AT PUSTAKA MIRI ON 8TH MARCH, 2009 - HANDFUL BUT QUALITY GROUP
More than 50 odds comprising of SOSWE members, few adults, students from St. Columba, Chung Hua and Kolej Tun Datu Tuanku Haji Bujang, Miri and one or two from SMK Joseph came on their own. We were quite disappointed that Riam School and SMK Joseph did'nt send any of their students despite our visit to their schools. They missed this rare opportunity to meet this inspiring writer.
ABOUT ROBERT RAYMER

ABOUT ROBERT RAYMER (EXTRACTION FROM LOVERS AND STRANGERS REVISTED 2008 MPH)
ROBERT RAYMER lives in Sarawak where he teaches creative writing at Universiti Malaysia Sarawak. Previously he taught for 10 years at Universiti Sains Malaysia in Penang, where he lived for over 20 years. His short stories and articles have appeared in The literary Review,Thema, London Magazine, Frank, QLRS, Going Places, Silver Kris, Far East Traveler, The Expat, The Writer, Reader's Digest and 25Malaysian Short Stories; Best of Silverfish New Writing 2001-2005.
His short stories have been taught at several Malaysian universities, in SPM English Literature, and used for Cambridge International Examinations. He has a collection of stories set in Malaysia, Lovers and Strangers Revisted (Silverfish, 2005), first published as Lovers and Strangers (Heinemann Asia, 1993).He is the editor of Silverfish New Writings 4(Silverfish,2004). His blog on writing can be found at borneoexpatwriter.blogspot.com and his website is at www.borneoexpatwriter.com. He lives with his wife,Jenny,their sons Jason and Justin, and his son Zaini. He is currently working on a non-fiction book and a novel set in Penang.
Two editions are available with SOSWE.
Lovers and Strangers Revisted (Silverfish,2005)
Lovers and Strangers Revisted (MPH, 2008)
Please let us know if you are interested. You can contact the secretary at jsohyankhoon@gmail.com or contact her at 016-8883679.
WELCOME 2009 - PROGRAME FOR THE YEAR
COLLABORATION WITH PUSTAKA MIRI
Year 2009
Activities Location
8th March Short Story Workshop by Robert Raymer AV Room
28th March SOSWE’s AGM 2009/2010 (postponed) AV Room
25th April Reading and Sharing AV Room
16th May Legal Sharing by Voon AV Room
13th June Writing Session Multi Purpose Room
18th July Children’s writing workshop Multi Purpose Room
15th Aug Media’s workshop AV Room
19th Sept Writing workshop Multi Purpose Room
17th Oct Reading and Sharing AV Room
21st Nov Visiting and Writing AV Room
12th Dec Writing session Multi Purpose Room
Year 2009
Activities Location
8th March Short Story Workshop by Robert Raymer AV Room
28th March SOSWE’s AGM 2009/2010 (postponed) AV Room
25th April Reading and Sharing AV Room
16th May Legal Sharing by Voon AV Room
13th June Writing Session Multi Purpose Room
18th July Children’s writing workshop Multi Purpose Room
15th Aug Media’s workshop AV Room
19th Sept Writing workshop Multi Purpose Room
17th Oct Reading and Sharing AV Room
21st Nov Visiting and Writing AV Room
12th Dec Writing session Multi Purpose Room
WELCOME TO SOSWE'S BLOG - 2008 NEWSLETTERS
2008 is a another year that passed by. SOSWE had successfully published the four issues of newsletter for 2008.
SOSWE’S NEWSLETTER
ISSUE 58/2008
OCT - DEC 2008
CONTENTS
•Editorial
•LOCAL INTEREST - The Essence of Christmas , the origin and how the people of Sarawak celebrate Christmas by Jennie Soh
•LOCAL SHARING - Christmas , a personal sharing by Robin Sim
•MEMBER’S CONTRIBUTION - Paradise Lost , an experience in 1998- By Florence Enau
•SENIOR SECTION - Heartbreak in Athens , a football love story by Joseph Ruffus Kaos, Jr.
•JUNIOR SECTION - Music heals, a personal feeling of how music affect a person’s life by Sarah Abida Chong
SOSWE’S NEWSLETTER
ISSUE 57/2008
JULY – SEPT 2008
CONTENTS
•Editorial
•LOCAL INTEREST - Hari Raya by Jennie Soh
•LOCAL SHARING - Book reviews by Molly, Judy and Helen
•MEMBER’S CONTRIBUTION - The fear of growing old by Matthew Sim
•SENIOR SECTION - Life’s like that by Leigh-Ann-Bong (13 years old)
•JUNIOR SECTION - My Great-grand mother’s Funeral by Tien Eu Min (10 years old)
SOSWE’S NEWSLETTER
ISSUE 56/2008
APRIL - JUNE 2008
CONTENTS
•Editorial
•LOCAL INTEREST - Cultural issues on Death by Jennie Soh
•LOCAL SHARING - Experiencing Lutong Landas & Flood in the 1980/1981 by Florence Enau
•MEMBER’S CONTRIBUTION - Health Tips for Healthy Travelers by Dr. Loh Yunn Hua
•SENIOR SECTION – My Teacher – Pain by Phoebe Asong Baian
•JUNIOR SECTION – A Quest by Constance Pau Chiong Jin
SOSWE’S NEWSLETTER
ISSUE 55/2008
JAN - MAR 2008
CONTENTS
•Editorial
•LOCAL INTEREST - Chinese New Year now and then by Jennie Soh
•LOCAL SHARING - My spicy Memory by Helena Henry
•MEMBER’S CONTRIBUTION - The Hidden Agony of Ecstary
•SENIOR SECTION – A walk of Life by Nathaniel Lau
•JUNIOR SECTION – L-O-S-T bt Lim Paulin
SOSWE’S NEWSLETTER
ISSUE 58/2008
OCT - DEC 2008
CONTENTS
•Editorial
•LOCAL INTEREST - The Essence of Christmas , the origin and how the people of Sarawak celebrate Christmas by Jennie Soh
•LOCAL SHARING - Christmas , a personal sharing by Robin Sim
•MEMBER’S CONTRIBUTION - Paradise Lost , an experience in 1998- By Florence Enau
•SENIOR SECTION - Heartbreak in Athens , a football love story by Joseph Ruffus Kaos, Jr.
•JUNIOR SECTION - Music heals, a personal feeling of how music affect a person’s life by Sarah Abida Chong
SOSWE’S NEWSLETTER
ISSUE 57/2008
JULY – SEPT 2008
CONTENTS
•Editorial
•LOCAL INTEREST - Hari Raya by Jennie Soh
•LOCAL SHARING - Book reviews by Molly, Judy and Helen
•MEMBER’S CONTRIBUTION - The fear of growing old by Matthew Sim
•SENIOR SECTION - Life’s like that by Leigh-Ann-Bong (13 years old)
•JUNIOR SECTION - My Great-grand mother’s Funeral by Tien Eu Min (10 years old)
SOSWE’S NEWSLETTER
ISSUE 56/2008
APRIL - JUNE 2008
CONTENTS
•Editorial
•LOCAL INTEREST - Cultural issues on Death by Jennie Soh
•LOCAL SHARING - Experiencing Lutong Landas & Flood in the 1980/1981 by Florence Enau
•MEMBER’S CONTRIBUTION - Health Tips for Healthy Travelers by Dr. Loh Yunn Hua
•SENIOR SECTION – My Teacher – Pain by Phoebe Asong Baian
•JUNIOR SECTION – A Quest by Constance Pau Chiong Jin
SOSWE’S NEWSLETTER
ISSUE 55/2008
JAN - MAR 2008
CONTENTS
•Editorial
•LOCAL INTEREST - Chinese New Year now and then by Jennie Soh
•LOCAL SHARING - My spicy Memory by Helena Henry
•MEMBER’S CONTRIBUTION - The Hidden Agony of Ecstary
•SENIOR SECTION – A walk of Life by Nathaniel Lau
•JUNIOR SECTION – L-O-S-T bt Lim Paulin
SOSWE'S NEWSLETTER ISSUE 58/2008 - OCT - DEC 2008
EDITORIAL
Year End is always a time to end the whole year activities or plan the new year activities.
New Year's Eve has always been a time for looking back to the past and more importantly, to look forward to the coming year. It is a time to reflect on the changes that we want or need to make and resolve to follow through . It can be the following :-
Spending more time with family and friends
Enjoy Life to the fullest
Be more Charitable
Write a Book
I was watching a documentary film on the program, “Witness” on the people of Somalia. This is what I gather. “Leave the bitter part behind and let us start afresh.”
The people of Somalia have been robbed of their land, their families killed, their wives and daughters raped, their sons being shot and their relatives been tortured and put to death. Yet, the people that were left behind were able to say things like “We forgive them, We forgive them for their actions for they do not know what they are doing?” which is exactly what Jesus said when he was put to death on the cross. Jesus said, “Forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” Luke 23: v.34. It is indeed a noble attitude for these people to be able to forgive and forget and start afresh for the sake of PEACE. It is easier said than done but it takes a lot of effort to build this kind of attitude among the human race. With the recent war between Israel and Palestine all because of human pride and revenge, this conflict cannot be solved until they have to learn that peace cannot be achieved with these attitudes of pride.
CULTURAL HAPPENINGS IN MIRI
Festival of Lights , Deepavali falls on 27th October, celebrated by all Hindus world wide. A colorful and eventful evening party was held at Eastwood organized by the Miri Indian Association under the leadership of Mr. Karambir Singh.
6th December - Piasau Boat Charity Half Marathon held a charity run to raise funds for the Palliative Care Home Programme.
6th December - Miri City Christmas Parade 2008 organized by eight churches with over 2,000 people taking part in the parade.
20th December - Gymkhana Club and the Children of Miri Community (over 100 performers and volunteers) came together to hold a Christmas Musical Charity Concert to raise funds for the poor children of the rural areas through MERCY MALAYSIA SARAWAK CHAPTER. A sum of RM 4,900 was raised and this money will be used to prescribe spectacles for the poor children in the Baram areas ;
Miri City Council launched its first newsletter - click to www.miricouncil.gov.my - Why the Punans do not eat deer?
In this last quarter we have lined up the following features which I hope can enlighten the readers and encourage more to join SOSWE. We are happy to have a new comer, Robin Sim who is a freelance lecturer in English and who shares the same interest in reading and writing. We welcomed him abroad.
LOCAL INTEREST - The Essence of Christmas , the origin and how the people of Sarawak celebrate Christmas by Jennie Soh
LOCAL SHARING - Christmas , a personal sharing by Robin Sim
MEMBER’S CONTRIBUTION - Paradise Lost , an experience in 1998- By Florence Enau
SENIOR SECTION - Heartbreak in Athens , a football love story by Joseph Ruffus Kaos, Jr.
JUNIOR SECTION - Music heals, a personal feeling of how music affect a person’s life by Sarah Abida Chong
As we look forward to another year, we do not know what is going to happen. We expect global financial crises, downsizing of companies, layoff of employees and maybe natural disasters, we do not know. All these are beyond our control and what we can do is just to take care of our health, stay close with our families and friends and do our best in all undertakings.
We always have a choice, so follow your heart and do not allow anyone to discourage or stop you from what you want to do.
It is natural that people will forget the good things you do, but one mistake you make will mark your integrity for the rest of your life which you think is not fair.
Just be sincere in your thoughts and your giving. At the end of the day, it is the satisfaction that you can experience that you can learn to share and give.
Life is not about how rich you are, it is all about how much you can appreciate your life by being able to share in many things you have inherited from your self. When we leave this world, we are not going to take anything with us except our own souls. So, be charitable and share your good fortunes.
“Choices can change our lives profoundly. The choice to mend a broken relationship, to say “yes” to a difficult assignment, to lay aside some important work to play with a child, to visit some forgotten person - these small choices may affect our lives eternally.”
- GEORGE GATTHER -
GOD BLESS YOU AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR 2009 !!!
EDITOR
LOCAL INTEREST - THE ESSENCE OF CHRISTMAS BY JENNIE SOH
BACKGROUND
The essence of Christmas story is the birth of the Baby Jesus. No one knows the exact time and the place Jesus was born. But long after his death, stories of Jesus’ birth were collected, written down and the growing Christian Church wanted to celebrate his birth and decided that 25th December should be the actual day for Christmas celebration around the world. It is the time of mid-winter celebrations with lights to light up the festival to celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ - CHRISTMAS!
Unitarian Universalits are often concerned about interpreting the Christmas festival and all the legends and symbols but the original versions come from the Gospels of Mathew 1: 18=2:12 and Luke 2: 1-20 , about the birth of Jesus bringing the power of love. These are messages of hope in times of darkness, hope in a violent world for peace on earth and goodwill to all men on earth.
CELEBRATING CHRISTMAS WITHIN THE INTERIOR PARTS OF SARAWAK
There are 27 ethnic tribes in Sarawak, most of them like the Ibans, Kelabits, Kayans, Kenyahs, Lun Bawangs , some Melanaus and others celebrate Christmas by attending services in churches. Most of the younger generation working outside Sarawak often go home for Christmas during the year. Some may even have to make a journey of more than four hours by road to reach their remote hometown like the Ba Kelalan highlands in Sarawak. But still the roads to the villages are quite unreachable because of the heavy rainfall that causes landslides during the landas season. With the budget airline like AIR ASIA, the trips are much easier to make.
Christmas celebrations are simple for the Lun bawang who live in the mountains of Ba Kelalan area and the Kelabit in the Bario plateau surrounded by mountains and trees where there are no shopping malls or traffic jams . But their celebration of Christmas is as meaningful as in the big cities. Water buffaloes being referred as reindeers to carry goods along the forest trails to far-flung villages on that occasion is their tradition and the main dish they normally have for dinner on the occasion at the longhouse Yuletide is either barbecued wild deer or boar.
Christmas in the Longhouse
It was a different experience to celebrate Christmas in the Longhouse. It was more a home coming for the longhouse folks getting together and catching up with what was happening in their lives away from home. Then there will be the church get together to sing songs and share their festive foods which are more locally based. Among the various activities organized to celebrate the occasion, the telematch is usually the most popular one. Carols are sung and followed by prayers to bless the fellowship.
“Christmas is indeed a caring gesture” attested Sandy. “The Holy spirit ministers to the people and people are filled with Holy Spirit and feel the sense of joy here.” It is very community oriented and people always look forward to come home for Christmas. They will normally pack some gifts and Christmas goodies for relatives in the villagers.
IN THE CITY
Christmas is a bit commercialized in the city. The supermarkets, hotels and the whole city is adorned with colorful lights.
The City Council give opportunities to let all the churches hold a Christmas Parade in the main town, holding candles, parading in their Christmas costumes with characters such as “angels”, “Roman soldiers”, “Father Christmas” , “Santas” and the Christians held candles as they sing hymns and Christmas carols.
The Carolers also go around caroling and visiting Christian homes and hotels to add to the atmosphere of Christmas.
CHARITABLE GESTURE
Mostly hotels and NGOs organize activities like Christmas Bazaars, Christmas shows , Christmas concerts to raise fund for different needs. The Gymkhana Club, Miri together with the community of children of different races had recently held a two hour musical concert with the theme, “CHILDREN HELPING CHILDREN”. It was a musical and charitable night with more than 100 performers. Volunteers put in their effort and time for rehearsals in the last two months, working hard with their performances to hold this concert to raise funds for the poor children in the rural areas through MERCY MALAYSIA SARAWAK CHAPTER. Hotels like Mega Hotel, Grand Palace, Dynasty Hotel, Park City Everly and some individual volunteers donated food and money for this function.
CONCLUSION
It was from the beginning of the creation of the world that the SON OF GOD (JESUS CHRIST) came down to earth to die for the sins of the people. He came with peace, care and love. The Christians today use his gesture to spread the message to the community.
LOCAL SHARING - WHAT CHRISTMAS MEANS TO ME BY ROBIN SIM
I can always remember the excitement when the day came in December to go pick up the Christmas tree. None of us seemed to agree on the same tree at first, but we always managed to come home with a beautiful under-five-foot tree. Why is the scent of a pinetree so special that it can make both children and adults feel so excited and yet so peaceful?
It was our family tradition to then set up and decorate the tree. We would bring out this big Arnotts assorted biscuits tin and fight for our favorite ornaments to hang on the tree. Each year we added more handmade masterpieces to this collection but somehow the tin was always big enough. When we had done the tree to our satisfaction we would then rush to put the many presents under it. We would spend many hours carefully wrapping the presents and these were usually so beautiful that we could spend many evenings just admiring them. Oh what fun then to just tear the wrapping paper to shreds on Christmas morning to see what the ‘fat man’ had given us.
We loved to creep down the big old wooden staircase after bedtime just to see and smell the food being prepared in the big kitchen. There was always a turkey roasting in the oven and huge platters of pies and cakes on the kitchen table. Then someone would discover us and we would run back upstairs so fast the wooden stairs would creak loudly in protest.
Having five siblings and many cousins of around the same age Christmas was always a very special time of the year. Of course some years we spent Christmas in Sabah with our cousins and these were just as fun. Then we grew up and things changed. I remember the fist Christmas in my own house. Oh, how exciting that was, coming home with a plastic tree from Parkson ! My friend and I had each bought a tree that the salesman had told us was very easy to set up – just follow the instruction! I had chosen twenty green glass balls to hang on my tree while my friend had twenty purple glass balls.
I was working for an airline then and suddenly Christmas wasn’t a traditional home with the family affair anymore. Of course I loved Midnight Mass with my friends but we were doing that a long way from home. We celebrated our Christmases in Hong Kong, London and Amsterdam or wherever we were at that time. The Christmas mass in Amsterdam was rather special for me as the church was really very old, and the priests wore costumes out of a Hollywood movie (or so it seemed to me!) and lit incense which added to the unreal atmosphere. Of course we didn’t understand a word the whole time as the priests spoke in Dutch (or some ancient language!) Christmas dinners were at hotels and although the food was just as good we felt something missing. I guess this is the time of the year when one wants to be home with the family.
Things have come full circle now that I am retired. Christmas means tradition, family and as one gets older I guess one wants to turn back the clock and bring back memories of the past. Christmas means so much more to me now than all the celebration, presents under the tree, food and parties. It is good to be home with family, all the little children and the pets. As we listen to Christmas songs on the radio I remember this line:
‘Mary, did you know your baby boy would one day redeem us?”
This Christmas I pray that more people around the World find for themselves, the true meaning and spirit of Christmas. Happy Holidays
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